Women are supposed to be the hunted while men are the hunters, isn’t that right ladies? However, if most men could have it their way, they would change the rules.
Believe it or not, a large portion of men are unsatisfied with their relationships, simply because their women never take charge in the bedroom. You know what is one of the sexiest things to a man during sex? It is not your lingerie, body, tattoos, or even your perfume. It is the sound of your voice, especially if it is the call of the wild, letting him know that you are enjoying yourself, and not just whisper-counting sprinkles on the ceiling.
So, what if you are a reserved woman who is fearful and shy about being anything else but submissive? Well, then it’s time for a change.
Satisfied Men Do Not Need More Sex
One of the best parts of taking charge in the bedroom, is that it is a win-win for everybody. You are getting what you want because you are in control, and he is getting what he wants because he is being told what to do for a change, which he’ll like. In addition, the fact that you are taking hold of the bull, tells him that you want him, which is something that all guys dream about.
And here’s a little secret that not all women seem to know. Taking control and satisfying your man does not have to mean more sex. What happens when you turn down your guy for sex. He probably gets a sad face, pouts for a minute, and then tunes you out for the rest of the evening. This is handling the situation in an uncontrolled fashion. Here’s the controlled version.
When your guy comes onto you, but you are not in the mood, take charge of the moment, and tell him that you have something planned for him, but he’s going to have to wait until (whenever it is that you decide). At that point you can help prolong his anticipation by teasing him for the days or hours that follow with a note, a text, or a slow and sexy kiss. There is a reason that men fall asleep after sex, and that is because the wait is over. The battle has been won. The most exciting parts of sex are either before or during the act. Making him wait for sex can actually heighten your intimate relationship if you take control of the when and where, and then follow through when you say you will.